onesedassumethataboysehestrangenessoftheworldlessthanadultsdo.infact，ithinkthatwegrown-upssometimesseelessoftheworldbecausewehaveaccepteditjustalittlebittoomuch，henceceasingtoseehinalitbe.whehis，yourdadisohebravestpersoni’veevermet.hechallengesmany，butalsoallowshisbelievestobeged，andfightforrovedmhtintheend.itisavirtuethatyouwilllearntovalueasyougetolder.forthis，iforeverlovehimasmyhusband，asyourfather，andasmybestfriend.

asyougrowup，myson，thingsgetalittle…fusing.iwishthesewon’thappentoyouoften，butsometimesyouwilllosethingsthatmakeyoufeelsafe，andpeoplewillleaveyouortreatyoubadlyfornoapparentreasonsatall.iwantyoutoremember，harry，thatthisisnotyourfault.momspentmostofmyteenyearsinaschoolthatyouwillprobablyjoininoneday，andi’veseen，eveninasupposedlyhomelyenviro，eventsthatwereunpleasantandhappenedfoodcause.bothyourdadandihavebeenresponsibleforsomehurts…butthatisthething，myson.sometimesitisotherpeople’sdoing，sometimesyouhaveapartinitaswellitrustyouto

yrandmotheroesomethingonthebackofabookformeaswell.shesaidthatamothershouldhaveexpectationsforthechildren，otherwiseshewillnotbeagoodparent.shecouldbestrietimes.iwishthatyouhadaeether，butasitis，imissherstriessverymuch.youaretoolittleandteousformetoputdownanyexpectationnow.ifeelthatitisasintohopethatishouldmouldyouintosomethingparticur，especiallywhenilookatyourcuriouseyes.soithink，i’drathersharewithyouafewthingstoexpedlookforiure，nowthatyouaresevenandhavealreadysteppedintothefirstworldofyours—aschool.andasisaid，youdefinitelyhavethelookofanexplorer.